Day 10: Two voices

I confess, I don’t think I’m going to make it to 100 days. Saying that goes against everything I know (and everything I teach) about developing the strength to break habits. Rule 1 is, ‘You have to believe you can do it’. I suppose that’s part of my problem. I believe I can. I just…

The Next Test – From numbing to feeling it all

When the only tool you have is a hammer, you tend to see every problem as a nail. Abraham Maslow Numbing strategies like food and alcohol enter our lives long before any deep and deliberate education about how to feel our feelings without losing our grip on happiness, reality, ourselves or our most important relationships….